Well at least the front of him is.  Clay tells New York Magazine that he has neither loved a man or a woman and that he feels no urges.  Here is a quote from the magazine

He imagines his social life here will be “nonexistent, really. I’m not a nighttime person.” He does not plan on dating, and he is not involved with anyone. “Heck, no,” he says. “My dogs.” He has never had a romantic relationship with anyone, unless you count the girls he took to dances back in high school in Raleigh. “I just don’t have an interest in … any of that at all. I have got too much on my plate,” he says. “I’d rather focus on one thing and do that when I can devote time to it, and right now, I just don’t have any desire.”

But Aiken is 29 years old and he is also a human. Surely he must have needs. Urges. He contemplates this in silence for 20 or 30 seconds. “Ah think maybe I don’t! I mean, not really. I’ve just kind of shut it off, maybe. Is that bad?”

I’m going to guess he has never loved a man but one has definitely loved him.  Now I do think that he is confused but only whether if he should be on top or on bottom.  Is it me or is he slowly turning into Willy Wonka?

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